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Condoms in News

Wed, 23 Apr 2008 11:11:11 +0100

As often as not condoms become newsmakers. Here are some amazing and funny stories where condoms played the main roles.

Doctor, help me take off the condom!

A man in Romania had to apply for medical help when he could not take off the condom that was glued on the penis.

Once 43-year-old Nicolae Popovici, the father of five children decided he did not want more kids. Having made this conclusion he bought a condom - perhaps this was the first condom he ever bought, or even ever saw. The first experience was unsuccessful. During intercourse the man and his wife realized that the condom was too big.

The smart man found the way out quickly: he put a generous amount of high quality glue on the penis and thus glued the condom to the cock, according to The National Newspaper.

It remains unknown whether the first trial was successful, but when it came to the condom's removal the spouses realized that they cannot cope with the problem with their own efforts, so they went to the local hospital.

"He thought a condom could be used for several times, so he wanted to leave it on the penis for a while. It was quite difficult to take the condom off'' - said a doctor from the hospital.

Condom on the plate

This story happened to an American woman who enjoyed dinner together with her friends in McCormick&Schmickes restaurant (Los Angeles) when she suddenly realized she was eating a latex condom instead of sea foods.

"I thought this was a calmar or a shrimp" - said the woman - So I chewed it for a while. After some time she realized her favorite soup contained a condom, according to Der Spiegel.

The woman spit out the "tasteless gum" and saw something that reminded of a piece of rubber glove. However one of her friends guessed this was a condom, fortunately a new, unused one.

The woman felt terribly. She claimed she had shock and depression and sued the restaurant.

Public Trying on a Dress

A young man decided to try on a condom without leaving the shop. This unusual incident happened in Norway.

Shop assistants say the man spent much time choosing a condom. In the end he took off the clothes to try on a condom and to choose the one that will suit him most.

The shop assistants decided not to present charges against the man, as he was very polite.

"May be he did that for a dare, or this was a joke, anyway, this was disorderly conduct", said the policeman that was called by the witnesses of the incident.

Indians use condoms inadequately

Indians use condoms in most unusual ways. In this country millions of free condoms are used inadequately, though these are intended for struggle with AIDS and for demographic increase control. Condoms are colored and inflated as air balloons, condoms are used for water transportation and soldiers protect their arms from dirt with help of condoms. Besides, condoms are used as a waterproofing layer for roofs and even as topping for roads, according to Daily Telegraph.

Only a quarter of 1,5 billion of condoms that are manufactured in India are used as contraceptive, according to the statistics.

Condom materials

Sun, 06 Apr 2008 08:11:11 +0100

What materials are condoms made out of?

Most condoms are made of natural latex the major source of which is Rubber tree, or Hevea brasiliensis, a tree that initially grew in the Amazon forest. Now Hevea brasiliensis is being cultivated in South-East Asia (Malasian latex is considered to be the best one). The rubber tree can reach a heigth of over 30 m.

A latex condom consists of natural latex (92 percent) and some other agents (vulcanizers, inhibitors and others) that provide some special and necessary characteristics (durability, flexibility and others).

Latex condoms are considered to be the best ones as these are thin and durable at the same time. However, latex condoms have two disadvantages. First of all latex condoms can be easily damaged by sun light and high temperatures. Secondly, some people are allergic to latex.

Allergy to lubricants (especially colored and flavored ones) can be met much more often. Thus you should try a condom with another lubricant if you experience some discomfort when using a condom. Most probably you will realize you have no allergy to condoms.

Keep in mind, that only water-based or silicone-based lubricants can be used with latex condoms. Oil-based lubricants damage latex (as well as sex toys).

What can you do if you have true latex allergy? Latex allergy does not mean you cannot use condoms. First of all, you can use condoms made out of hypoallergenic latex, i.e latex that has less so called complex proteins that cause allergy. Secondly, you can use condoms made out of some synthetic materials, for instance polyurethane.

Polyurethane condoms do not cause allergy. These are not damaged by high temperature and are as durable as latex condoms. Polyurethane condoms can be used with any kind of lubricant: water-based, silicone-based or oil-based. However, polyurethane condoms have one disadvantage - these are much more expensive than latex condoms.

Some condoms are made of natural membranes ( animal skin or intestines). These condoms cannot cause allergy but their effectiveness against sexually transmitted diseases is very low.

Unusual Ways To Use Condoms: Condom Dresses

Tue, 18 Mar 2008 08:11:11 +0000

Creative people do know that condoms are not only effective contraceptives, as they can become a good material for many things, for example for dresses.

Spain

Adriana Bertini, designer makes her most unusual clothings out of latex condoms. This way she wishes to draw public attention to problems of those HIV positive and those who have AIDS.

"I am strongly convinced that putting on a condom for sex must be a good habit like brushing teeth and taking a shower. You don't forget to take a shower before an intimate date, so you should not forget to put on a condom, this should be a habit!"

Some of the dresses created by Adriana consist of more than 50.000 condoms. Adriana's wedding dress is made out of 80.000 condoms and weights about 25 kg. This is a nice example of how a usual thing can become a material for a work of art. By the way, all Adriana's dresses are made of "bad", expired condoms.

If Adriana's wish comes true she will have no material for her nice dresses!

China

Nurses from a Chinese hospital found their own way to fight AIDS and to promote safe sex. They put on dresses made out of condoms and went in the streets.

These unusual dresses took about 5000 condoms and two weeks of hard labors. A representative of the hospital said These dresses shock. I hope they will remind people of significance of safe sex.

This way the girls celebrated the World Aids Day that is on the 1st of December. They handed booklets and condoms to everyone who wanted to join the movement.

Liu Xuanyi, a famous Chinese transvestite, as well as nurses found his own way to promote safe sex. He made and demonstrated to journalists a dress made of 300 condoms.

The witnesses of the unusual demonstration said that the dress ways quite pretty and sexy. Red ribbon - the symbol of solidarity of people living with HIV/ AIDS emphasized the idea of safe sex and made the dress look sexy.

Latvia

A medical museum in Riga (Latvia) exhibited a dress made of condoms that became an item t in the exhibition "Love. Sex. Abortion".

The dress took more than 400 condoms of different colors, flavors and sizes. What to the exhibition itself, its purpose was to demonstrate the role of love in society and to show its connection with sex and abortions.

" Absence of information, lack of knowledge about safe sex - for these reasons happy love leads to abortion." - the organizers of the exhibit say. - Our goal is to convince people opt for safer sex that prevents lots of troubles.

Penis Extensions

Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:11:11 +0000

If you are dissatisfied or want to experiment with your penis size, one of the natural ways to do it painfully and comfortably is to use a penis extension.

Penis extension is a hollow device placed on a penis to extend its girth and length. You can use this sex toy for various purposes:

to add more thickness and length to your penis
to increase your erection
For additional stimulation

Types of penis extensions

Hollow strap-on dildos and vibrators
These are sex toys that look like a phallus-shaped penis attachment being hollow for inserting penis. You can use these dildos being either erect or not. It allows to sustain longer erection prolonging the intercourse, increases the size of your penis and can be also used by lesbian partners as a strap-on dildo.

Ticklers
Ticklers are sex toys that are phallus-shaped to fit the penis and have a textured surface and additional features for sexual stimulation. Though they fit like a condom, they are not used as a birth control method.

Traditional penis extensions
Penis extension of a more traditional type have a shape similar to a real penis extending penis girth and length for up to 3 inches. These sex toys are put on an erect penis and taken off like a condom.

How to use a penis sleeve

Penis sleeve is very easy in use, giving you plenty of possibilities to please your partner.
Place a penis extension over the head of the penis and roll on over the shaft to fit snuggly. You may apply small amounts of water-based lubricant on the penis for better slide but avoiding the excessive amount to prevent the penis extension from slipping off during the intercourse.
Also use lubricant to apply it on the external surface of the toy. Like with the other sex toys, lubricant is necessary to make penetration smoother and more comfortable.
To take off the penis extension you will need to roll it to the tip and remove.
Penis extensions can be cleaned with special sex toys cleaner or warm water and mild soap. keep in mind that penis sleeve shouldn't be shared and can be used only by one person. For safety reasons you can put on a condom on a penis extension.

Condoms: myths and the truth

Mon, 14 Jan 2008 08:11:11 +0000

Condom is a unique contraceptive as it protects you from sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy, no other contraceptive can provide so great effect. Nevertheless, many people avoid using condoms due to some myths that describe condom as something awful that deprives you of pleasure. What are these myths?

Myth 1. Condoms are male contraceptives and they must be bought by men.
This is a very popular opinion, but it is groundless. About 35 % condom buyers are women.

Myth 2. Condom affects sensations and makes sex less enjoyable
Modern latex condoms are very durable, elastic and at the same time they are very thin. So thin that you won't feel you are wearing a condom. What is more, some condoms can even enhance your sensations as these have textured surface that provides additional stimulation. Some condoms come with a prolonging lubricant that contains benzocaine. These condoms are designed for those who have problems with ejaculation control. Choose the condom that suits you best and enjoy safer sex and great pleasure time!

Myth 3. Condoms cause friction, discomfort and pain
Almost all available condoms come with water-based or silicone-based lubricant that reduces pain and discomfort. Silicone-based lubricants have two main advantages: they provide long-lasting lubrication and do not cost much. However these are not water-soluble. Water-based lubricants are water-soluble and feel very naturally.
Also there are lubricants that contain spermicides (sperm-killers that increase condom's effectiveness) and anesthetics (agents that prolong sexual intercourse). Flavored lubricants make condoms perfect for oral sex. If still you feel discomfort and pain, than do go to doctor as painful intercourse might be a sign of some disorders.

Myth 4. Sex without condom influences health of female partner beneficially
The truth. Some people think that woman needs hormones that are contained in semen and that is why she should practice sex without condom. However, abortion and infections can hardly be called beneficial. 55 percent of infertile women lost ability to conceive as the result of an abortion. Is it worth mentioning that sexually transmitted diseases also lead to infertility and other troubles?
The only disadvantage of latex condoms is that these contain protein that might cause allergy in some people. Those who have latex allergy should use polyurethane condoms.

Myth 5. We are faithful spouses, we don't need a condom
The truth. Even if you are spouses and you do not plan pregnancy, you should use a condom. One can get infected through non-sexual way. This is especially important if the female partner is pregnant.

Myth 6. Suggestion to use a condom can insult the partner and shows my distrust
Nothing of the kind! Thus you will show your care of your partner's health and safety!

Anal Sex and Condoms

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 08:11:11 +0000

Any kind of sex must be safe! No matter what kind of sex you practice: vaginal, oral or anal, it must be protected.

Anal sex very rarely leads to unwanted pregnancy (believe it or not, there were such cases when sperm got from anus to vagina), but it does require using a condom.

Why you should use a condom for anal sex?

Sexually transmitted diseases can be easily transmitted through anal sex. What to HIV, this virus is even more likely to be transmitted though anal sex, than by vaginal or anal. The fact is that anus is not as flexible as vagina. It easier gets injured during sex, thus it is much more vulnerable to infections.

Keep in mind that anal sex transmits such STDs as anal gonorrhea, anal herpes, anal condyloma, hepatitis A and B, intestinal infections, to say nothing of HIV.

What condoms you should use for anal sex?

You can use simple condoms or special heavy-duty condoms that are designed for anal sex. Usually anal sex implies more friction, that is why condoms for anal sex should be more durable.

Do not use scented or flavored condoms as these might cause allergy. If you have latex allergy, use polyurethane condoms.

What lubricant should I use for anal sex?

Keep in mind that oil-based lubricants damage latex. That is why you should use only water-based or silicone-based lubricants with latex condoms.

If you are allergic to latex, or for some other reason use polyurethane condoms, than you can use any kind of sex lubricant, including oil-based.

There are special lubricants for anal sex. These contain benzocaine, an agent that desensitizes anus, relieves pain and makes penetration more comfortable.

Anal sex without condom

Sometimes we get so overwhelmed by passion that nothing can prevent us from sex, including absence of a condom. What should you keep in mind if you have anal sex without a condom?

Longer intercourse more risk. The longer anal intercourse lasts, the more risky it is.
The more lubrication the better. Use as much lubricant as possible. Lubricants diminish the risk of injuries, that increase the risk to get infected for both partners. So if you don't use condoms, than, at least use plenty of lubricant.
Withdrawal (intercourse without ejaculation). Withdrawal makes unprotected anal sex less risky for the receiving partner. You can ask the giving partner to interrupt intercourse before ejaculation. However, keep in mind that this measure doesn't exclude risk, as HIV and other infections contain in pre-ejaculatory fluids.

Condoms. Questions and Answers

Fri, 05 Oct 2007 08:11:11 +0100

My partner wants to try a glowing in the dark condom, but I doubt whether it is safe. I wonder what agents are used to make the condom glow. Is it safe or it can affect my health somehow?

Glowing is caused by zinc sulfide (ZnS) that begins glowing when combined with copper. These agents are absolutely safe, as copper can be found nearly everywhere and zinc sulfide is contained in many minerals.

The results of the tests that were performed in Japan showed that glowing in the dark condoms are absolutely safe.

I heard there are condoms that relieve pain in virgins during the first sex. Is is true?

Perhaps you mean condoms with anesthetics (lidocaine, benzocaine and others). Such condoms are designed to decrease sensitivity of the head of the penis and thus to avoid early ejaculation and to prolong sexual intercourse. That is why the anesthetic should be inside the condom.

However, some manufacturers add anesthetic to the external lubricant. Thus such a condom can relieve pain in a woman. However, this is an exception or a defect: such condoms should influence men's sensations, rather than woman's.

If you want to relieve pain somehow you can use a lubricant with anesthetic, but take into account that such a lubricant will relieve pain and at the same time will decrease your sensitivity in general.

I have an infection and I wonder whether I can be absolutely sure that my partner won't get infected if I use condoms.

No condom can guarantee a 100 percent protection from unwanted pregnancy or transmission of infections. However, there are no other methods that can diminish the risk of getting infected so considerably. So it remains up to you whether to use a condom or to abstain from sex until you are healthy.

Is it a defect if a condom has too much Vaseline?

A condom cannot has Vaseline at all, as Vaseline is made of organic oils that damage latex. That is why you should not use Vaseline as a lubricant with a condom. Perhaps you mean water-based lubricant or lubricants based on mineral oils (usually this is silicone oil). Large amount of lubricant does not mean that the condom is of pour quality. At least the lubricant will not leak off if the package is leakproof.

I know that condoms are electronically tested. What is the procedure?

Every condom is stretched over a metal former and subjected to a high voltage. If the condom has no defects it will serve as a good isolator. If there are any holes the voltage will decrease and the condom will be rejected. However this testing does not exclude breakage during the following operations (for instance packaging).

I know that spermicides protect from pregnancy and prevent getting infected with an STD. Can I use a spermicide lubricant instead of condom?

Spermicides (including nonoxynol-9) have been used since sixteens of the previous century. They used to be considered to diminish the risk or unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV.

However studies that were monitored by WHO in 2000-20001 brought quite unexpected results. Here are the most important conclusions

h-9, if used without a condom has moderate contraceptive effect
there are no evident proves that condoms with spermicide lubricant is more effective than a condom with any other lubricant
h-9 damages cellular membranes in the vagina
h-9 cannot be used anally
h-9 damages latex, especially if the condom is textured

Usually spermicide lubricants are applied only to smooth, non-flavored condoms.

Sex Toys And Condoms

Thu, 27 Sep 2007 08:11:11 +0100

Insertable sex toys, such as , and are often recommended to use with condoms. You might wonder Why should I put a condom on a sex toy? A sex toy cannot make me pregnant, it cannot infect me with HIV or some other virus!.

You are right, but still using a condoms on sex toy is a good idea. But why?

Why you should use a condom on a sex toy

Using a condom on a sex toy contributes to better hygiene. Many sex toys are made of porous materials. Pores make the sex toy quite difficult to clean, because bacteria might remain in the pores even after cleaning. The way out is very easy you put a condom on the sex toy and you take the condom off after the play. Thus the sex toy will remain completely clean.
Using a condom on a sex toy prolongs the toy's lifespan, because you do not have to wash the sex toy with strong detergents and thus you do not damage the surface of the sex toy.
Using a condom on a sex toy is a very good idea if you share your sex toys with a partner. You put a condom on the sex toy and you use a fresh one before giving the sex toy to the partner. Thus you will avoid infections, STDs and HIV.
Using a condom on the sex toy is a perfect way out for those who use the same sex toy for anal and for vaginal penetration. If you insert the sex toy in the anus and then into the vagina without washing you are likely to transmit infections from the anus to the vagina. Using a condom on the sex toy solves this problem, just use a fresh condom before vaginal play.

Tips

If you are allergic to latex, use condoms made of some other materials, for instance .
Always use with sex toys. Sex lubricants provide easier penetration and better glide. However, keep in mind that latex condoms are incompatible with oil-based lubricants, since these damage condoms. Latex condoms are compatible only with water-based and silicone based lubricants. Polyurethane condoms are compatible with any kind of sex lubricants, including oil-based ones.
For extra pleasure you can use or dotted condoms. This is a good idea if your sex toy is absolutely smooth and you want to get some extra stimulation.
Use if you want to enhance your play even more

Any kind of sexual play should be safe. No matter what pleasure you prefer: vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex or play with sex toys, use condoms. Let your play be enjoyable and safe!

Amazing History of Condoms

Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:11:11 +0100

The condom is a device with long and quite amazing history. Our forefathers as well as we did not always make love in order to have children, so they made up some methods of contraception.

Ancient were made of materials that were far from being perfect. For instance, there were condoms made out of intestines of animals. Just imagine this picture: a loving couple enjoys incredibly tender foreplay and then stops to put on the penis something made of intestines. Poor, poor ancient men! They had to suffer a lot for the sake of love!

One of the oldest condoms is exhibited in London museums. The antiquarian contraceptive was made about 350 years ago. It was made out of intestines of an animal and it was to be soaked in milk before use for softening. This interesting specimen was found during diggings in one of towers.

Ancient Arabians turned out to be very inventive. They were the first to introduce some novelties for sex. Archaeologists have found only cases for penis that were adorned with gems. These cases were buried together with the corpse of the man. Can you imagine what were Arabian contraceptives like?

According to other sources the first condom was made of leather and it was used by none other but pharaoh Tutankhamen. In fact no one knows whether Egyptians used such devices for contraception as Egyptian condoms were adorned with gems. Probably men used these devices to compare their manhoods.

Also there is a indirect evidence of the fact that Egyptians did not use these devices as a method of contraception: to prevent pregnancy ancient Egyptian women used special tampons soaked with juice of acacia and even crocodile's dung!

At the same time Japanese invented a similar device that was made of soft leather. It was called kavagata.

In the Renaissance a famous doctor Fallopio described use of fabric as an analogue of condoms. At that time epidemic of syphilis raged in Europe and doctors tried to fight it by all possible means.

There are rumors that the famous lover Casanova preferred to make love only with armor on the manhood. Of course, manufacturing of condoms was not so active in the 18th century, but it did exist. The condoms were very expensive, but nothing could prevent Casanova from getting sexual pleasures.

Traditional condoms appeared only with the invention of rubber and only in the 19th century. These condoms were similar to those we use today.

Modern people are much happier than ancient people. Today any person can choose a condom he or she likes, as there are colored, flavored and textured that do not only protect from infections but provide extra pleasure as well. There are even vibrating condoms that are a method of contraception and a sex toy simultaneously.

We have a very large choice, so why not to choose safer sex?

Facts

About 5 000 000 000 condoms are sold yearly in the world
More than 50 percent of condoms are bought by women
There are more than 100 condom brands in the market.

10 Arguments in Favor of Condoms

Wed, 01 Aug 2007 08:11:11 +0100

Condom is the only effective (besides sexual abstinence) method of contraception that protects you against sexually transmitted diseases, such as AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, papilloma virus and others.
This effect is achieved due to the fact that a condom (male or female) serves as a barrier that prevents contact of body fluids.

Condom does not contain hormones and, unlike birth-control pills does not have side effects (the only exception is latex allergy that occurs very rarely).

Condom is much more available than other methods of contraception as it does not require consulting a doctor. This cannot be said about other methods of contraception, especially hormonal ones that must be prescribed by a doctor and that can cause lots of troubles if chosen without a specialist.

You do not have to wait until it starts to work (like with foams, creams and other chemical contraceptives). Put it on and have fun!

Condom is very easy to use. You do not have to follow a schedule (like with birth-control pills), you do not need a doctor to adjust it (like with intrauterine methods of contraception).

Condom, unlike any other method of contraception helps men to cope with early ejaculation. If you suffer from early ejaculation and want to prolong intercourse you should not use ultra thin condoms. First of all a not too thin condom makes the head of the penis less sensitive to stimulation. Secondly, there are condoms that contain special lubricants inside that help to delay climax and to enjoy sexual intercourse longer.

Condom, unlike any other method of contraception can enhance pleasure of both partners.
There are textured (ribbed, dotted, ribbed, studded, veined,etc) condoms that provide extra stimulation to both partners. Flavored condoms greatly enhance oral sex. This might surprise you, but oral sex does require protection as many sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted through oral sex.
By using a condom for oral sex you will achieve two goals: first of all you will protect yourself from infections, and secondly, you will greatly enhance pleasure of the giving partner. The variety of flavors is great so anyone can choose the flavor he or she likes most.
Also there are condoms containing warming lubricants that enhance sensations and add extra spice for sexual experiments.
What is more, there are vibrating condoms! These condoms come with a cock ring that has a vibrating bullet! Vibrating bullet turns the condom from method of contraception into a sex toy!

Condom is very small, it can be put even in the smallest handbag or in a pocket. This is a method of contraception that can be always handy. Just make sure to buy new condoms as soon as you have used the last one.

Willingness to use a condom shows your care about your partner. This is the evidence of your being a responsible person who is worth trusting.

Putting on the condom can become a very spicy element of love play especially if the condom is put on the penis by a woman. Some women know how to put it on with mouth!

Allergy to Condoms

Mon, 16 Jul 2007 08:11:11 +0100

Though condom is one of the most effective and easy to use methods of contraception some people refuse to use it since use of the condom causes such unpleasant effects as edema, irritation, reddening, rash and itch in them. In men use of the condom might cause paraphimosis. Why do these troubles happen?

The reasons might be as follows: latex allergy, allergy to some components of the lubricant the condom contains (for instance to spermicides or flavors) non-allergy reaction to lubricant.

Latex Allergy

According to scientific data about 6 percent of people suffer from allergy to latex. If some other objects made of latex (gloves, toys, sex toys) cause unpleasant effects in you, than, perhaps you have allergy to latex. Usually allergy latex causes skin reactions. Particles of latex can be transmitted through air. In this cases symptoms of filler's lung appear.

Often those who are sensitive to latex turn out to be allergic to many kinds of fruit and vegetables, such as potatoes, bananas, kiwi and others. You can easily find out whether you are allergic to latex or not, as simple blood test reveals allergies.

What to do

First of all you should find out whether you have latex allergy

If you realized that unpleasant effects are not caused by latex, you should find out what caused troubles. If irritation, itch and other effects were caused by some components contained in lubricant, you should use unflavored condoms without spermicides and lubricants that prolong intercourse.

If you turned out to have latex allergy you should opt for some other method of contraception.

As you know condom is the only method of contraception that protects you from sexually transmitted diseases as it prevents contacts between body fluids. Taking this into account you should understand that all other contraceptives should be used only provided you have a regular and faithful partner. If you don't have one you should opt for polyurethane condoms that do not contain latex and that will not cause allergy in you.

Condoms. Dealing with Troubles

Thu, 28 Jun 2007 08:11:11 +0100

In the vast majority of cases use of condoms does not cause any difficulties. Usually troubles that occur (mainly this is breakage of the condom, its slipping off the penis or some difficulties with erection) are caused by improper use of this contraceptive.

Below you will find some tips that will help you to use condoms comfortably and safely.

Breakage

The condom might break because of being improperly used or stored. Often this trouble happens to unexperienced men, that is why young men before having their first sex are recommended to masturbate with a condom on in order to get used to condoms. Also there are some tips, that, if followed will prevent breakage of the condom in future.

Use the right lubricant. Keep in mind that only water-based or silicone based lubricants are compatible with latex condoms. Oil-based lubricants damage latex. If you prefer oil-based lubricants, then use non-latex condoms, for instance polyurethane condoms.
Use a considerable amount of lubricant, especially when having anal sex. Put some amount of lube on the condom and inside the anus to provide easier glide and to reduce frictions.
Use right-sized condoms. A too small condom will prevent you from maintaining erection and is more likely to tear.
Change condoms every 30 minutes. The longer you use a condom, the more likely to tear it is. So it is a good idea to check whether everything is OK with the condom during sex. If intercourse lasts for more than 30 minutes, change it for a new one.
Do not stretch it. The condom should be unrolled, rather than stretched, so do not be too enthusiastic when putting on the condom.
Use only one condom. Some people think that use of two condoms can double protection. In fact the effect is quite the opposite: two condoms are more likely to break than one.
Store condoms properly. Never store condoms in wet and hot places. Also they should not be exposed to sun rays.
Remove air bubbles. Sometimes air remains in the condom and this causes its breakage. So every time, when putting on the condom squeeze the tip of the condom to remove air bubbles.

Slipping off

The other problem is that sometimes the condom might slip off the penis during sexual intercourse. If this problem occurs too often, than you should do the following

Do not put lubricant on the bare penis. Lubricant under the condom might make the latter slip off the penis.
Use right-sized condom. Usually condoms slip off the penis being too big.
Unroll the condom completely. A condom might slip off the penis because it was not unrolled up to the base of the shaft.

Erection problems

Sometimes men refuse to use condoms thinking that these might prevent them from achieving and maintaining erection. Here are some recommendation regarded this matter

Never use too small condoms. These do influence erection. There is a great range of big-sized condoms, try to use some of them.
Erection rings. There are special erection rings, that are sex toys designed to be worn at the base of the penis and to maintain erection. The rings are available in a great variety of models. Try a few models to find the one that will suit you best.
Visit your doctor. If the problem persists, than perhaps it has nothing to do with condoms. The doctor will find out what causes erection problems and will prescribe treatment.

The size of a condom

Wed, 25 Apr 2007 11:11:11 +0100

Most failures that happen with condom are connected with the wrong way people put on or take off it. On the other hand, many men are unaware that condoms differ in sizes and that can create some problems. In spite of the fact that size does matters in terms of condom measurements, many men face the difficulty to choose the right size of the condom.

When do I know it's a wrong size?

The main cause for condom size concern should be its fit. When you feel that condom feels loose it may indicate that condom is bigger than your penis, if it feels too tight, you should consider larger size of the condom.

Besides you should check if the collar of the condom to reach the base of the penis, in case it doesn't you should choose longer condom.

What can happen if it's wrong size of the condom?

If you feel uncomfortable during the intercourse or experience considerable difficulties putting on or taking off the condom, these can result in the following:

Slip off of the big condom
Tearing or splitting of the small condom
Loss of the condom in vagina or anus

What are condom sizes?

Condom manufacturers usually have small variations from the standard size of the condom which means that most condoms measurements will be between 98 and 106 mm wide, with 52-54 mm circumference and 180 mm length. This size is considered to fit the average penis size in erect state that according to various researches is 4- 9 inches long.

What condom size to choose?

Unfortunately for today reality there is no wide range of condom sizes available in the adult market. Although you can find measurements on the condom pack and some condoms have such indications like regular, large and extra large . If you know that your penis size exceeds or otherwise condom doesn't give you comfortable fit, you should try on another condom.

Lifestyle and Trojan condoms are among those manufacturers who offer some variability in terms of condoms size, especially for those who have above average penis size.

Some Sico condoms, like Sico/Grip type have thicker ring with smaller diameter to fit your penis tighter.

Condoms for pleasure

Tue, 20 Mar 2007 11:11:11 +0000

The benefits of a condom as a contraceptive is well-known but still the main motivation for people to use a condom remains pleasure. And many people are likely to say that condom's main disadvantage is decreased sensitivity for both partners.

Leading condom manufactures became aware of this fact and now you can choose among the whole variety of condom types so that sexual sensations would be even heightened.

Flavored

Flavored condoms are designed for oral sex. And it is known that oral pleasure can not be fully enjoyed unless you are protected. As latex condoms and particularly lubricated ones are claimed to have unusual and quite bad taste. Now you may not worry about tasting latex.

This type of condoms can have a flavor of banana, strawberry, chocolate, peppermint and any other favorite edible thing.

Colored

You shouldn't think that plain skin color is the most to be expected from a condom. The range of colors can be vast from the rainbow ones to the metallic and glowing in the dark. For those who want every encounter to be a kind of celebration - condoms with funny faces or any other curious patterns are also available.

Textured

Textured condoms are likely to resemble sex toys with a purpose of stimulating partner's sensitive zones. There are ribbed, studded, veined, ridged and other types of textured condoms that may enhance sexual enjoyment to greater extent.

Lubricated

As thrusting of the latex against sensitive skin of genitals can be quite irritating most condoms are now sold pre-lubricated. Most condoms are lubricated with either water-based and silicone lubricant. These two are compatible with latex material. Both lubricants have their advantages and disadvantages. While water based lubricant may need reapplication as it dries up more faster, silicone based lubricants are quite durable but some people can be allergic to it.

Warming

Warming condoms are meant to create a warming effect on your partner's genitals. They are lubricated with warming lubricant to heat up sensations and add extra spice for sexual experiments.

Thinner

Condoms may come in different thickness and those who worry more on the "decreased sensitivity" may choose thinner condoms that provide the same protection against pregnancy and STD's but give almost a natural feeling. Thicker condoms can be recommended for anal play as in this case more strength and friction may be involved.

Latex condom

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Latex is the most suitable and beneficial material the up-to-date are produced from. The condoms made of Latex are widely spread all over the world and are mostly demanded by the population.

This kind of material is a natural one and is extracted from specific plants. Exposed to the air the very material tends to coagulate.

Main advantages:

High percentage of protection.

It is known that the latex texture does not contain big pores. Due to this fact condoms made of latex do not permit any infection or disease to attain the vulnerable parts of the body.

Fits any size.
It is stretchable, elastic and usually comes to be perfect for every penis. There are individuals who are willing to acquire bigger sizes for better comfort and satisfaction.

Thickness

Thickness reaches 0.0018 inches, while the average one is 0.0027 inches. Thus your senses and feelings are more significant, but the rate of durability is lower.

Latex material is compatible only with water-based lubes.

In the situation when there the natural lubricant lacks and the condom doesnt have enough sliding, certain individuals use different liquids in order to prevent the latex tearing and to enhance the pleasure. Such liquids as silicone, oil, etc may destroy its structure and lead to its cracking.

Low cost

Pleasant touch and smell

The disadvantages:

The tearing or breaking risk.

Many experts think that these products dont guarantee full protection. Taking into consideration that there are a lot of manufacturers on proper market who provide low quality goods and products. There are situations (in 5% of cases) when the condoms cracked.

Sensitiveness to temperature and ultraviolet light;

The possibility to allergic reactions. Some individuals are very sensitive and allergic to this kind of material.

Unpleasant rubber latex scent

Spermicides

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What are they?

Spermicides represent a bundle of several chemical products inserted in female's vagina before the intercourse. They are aimed to destroy or inactivate the sperm ejaculated during sex, preventing thus the pregnancy.
The main components of spermicides are octoxynol-9, menfegol, benzalkonium chloride and the most common one- the nonoxynol-9.

Spermicides' usage

Spermicides are used as a temporary method of contraception. They are mostly recommended for those couples who have intercourse infrequently or are in the process of deciding on a long-term method of contraception. Spermicides are also used by women who do not prefer using hormonal methods and by breastfeeding women who need contraception. They are contraindicated for those women who suffer from cervical cancer and have a high risk of HIV.

How do spermicides work?

The spermicide is introduced into the upper vagina close to the cervix. Thus it comes in contact with sperm and kills it. The spermicide should be inserted or applied at the right time and in the correct manner. If you are going to have sex multiple times during one evening, it is required to reapply the spermicide each time before you start another vaginal act.

Effectiveness

Spermicides could be used alone, but a better efficacy is guaranteed only in that case when they are used with another method of contraception- with condoms or diaphragm, for example.

Types of spermicides

There are several types of spermicides, for instance spermicidal cream, aerosol foam, jellies, films, melting suppositories, foaming tablets, etc. There are also available condoms lubricated with spermicides and contraceptive sponges pretreated with foamy spermicide. Nevertheless, it was estimated that condoms lubricated with nonoxynol-9 have no advantage in contraceptive efficacy and should no longer be recommended.
Spermicides' advantages

No restriction on age;

No restriction on use;

Safe;

Effective whether used correctly and properly;

Do not require health care providers' visit;

Do not require partner's involvement;

Immediate return to fertility;

Easy to initiate and discontinue;

Available without prescriptions;

Relatively inexpensive;

Convenient

Spermicides' disadvantages are:

increased risk of HIV transmission;

sexual activity interruption;

no protection against STDs;

need to use with each act of sex;

disruption of bacteria's normal balance in a woman's body;

local irritation and allergy because of nonoxynol-9;

painful urinary tract infection;

higher probability to become pregnant then with the other methods' usage; etc

For other information and suggestions regarding spermicides you could consult and visit a qualified medical assistant. While purchasing spermicides get acquainted with all instructions. They contain more meticulous information on this method of contraception.

How to convince your partner to wear a condom

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Nowadays individuals face more and more impediments within their sexual life. All these barriers stem from our own incompetence and carelessness. It is strange and seems to have no reasons but it is true. The worldwide ecological situation helps us eagerly to gather distinct diseases and uncured illnesses. This terrible situation might bear fear and at the same time a strong willing to protect ourselves through different ways.

If you are a sexually educated person I am pretty sure you have heard about the concept of sexual transmitted diseases (STDs). It represents a bundle of different sexual illnesses that can be passed from one individual to another during sexual intercourse. Being truly acquainted with this concept should mean that you maintain a safe sexual life and a high protection of you and your partner. Nevertheless by some reasons contraception is often ignored. Usually it happens when individuals, especially, men are deeply implicated within the foreplay process and do not want to interrupt it. Their huge sexual desire overcomes their reasoning. Thus they start to hurry up the events and to pace forward.

Now it's women's turn. We, ladies, do have to be more attentive and take care of our health because our future sexual life relies on us only. That is why we should control the situation; interrupt the prelude by proposing our partner to put the condom on ( ). This is the most suitable and the easiest way of contraception.
Unfortunately there are several cases when men are truly against condoms usage. The reasons for their abstinence from this way of protection are:

They are unwilling to interrupt the prelude for wearing the condom. In their opinion they loose desire and hardness.

Wearing a condom means less pleasant sensations and reduced gratification. It is because of latex material the condom is made of that prevents the natural contact with the skin.

These reasons seem to be quite reckless and at the same time they are very familiar to us. Unprotected sexual intercourses are frequently met because men, in general had never met such problems before and do not know about their existence at all. Their confidence and naivety create further negative consequences. They simply trust the partner without knowing is she clear or safe. And again is required a logical step to do. This one is more meticulous and implies both partners' implication. It is undoubtedly required:

Honesty and confidence between partners!

It doesn't matter is your partner for a night or for a long time period your aim is to confide and express him your point of view regarding the condom usage.

Claim your gold rule: No condoms, no sex!!! Make him aware of your willingness to care your body and to protect from any STD.

If your relationship expects to be serious and lasting try to maintain the confidence between you and your boyfriend. Predispose your partner to a confident tête-à-tête discussion. Be honest and loyal and demand this from him. Ask him to show you all the tests he had ever made during his life. Ask about the reasons he had never used the condoms before and the ways he protected himself and his former sexual partner.

Patience and trials for better results!

Tell your partner you have to pass some tests for assuring you are in good state of health.
The result should be advantageous. Men's selfish character is awakening. The thought of being contaminated with a disease spread reasoning in their minds.

Have a discussion on topic "STDs and their consequences". Relate him stories and predictable facts taken from real events and perceive his concept of thinking. Make him aware of these diseases. Use humor, more examples, and situations, for a better accumulation and understanding of information. If he agrees you can consult a specialist's opinion and advices.

Try to convince him that sex in a condom is not so bad, insensitive and unpleasant like he thinks. It is a stereotype deeply imbuing men's mind and thoughts. This problem is mostly related to individual's psychology.

Another PRO you can easily bring is the wide variety of condoms the modern market offers. More and more condoms are characterized by their extra thin material they are made of, distinct sizes, flavors, colors. They are specially ribbed, shaped, studded, etc. Sex could become more interesting and funny. Nevertheless both partners feel pleasure and are protected simultaneously.

Be foxy and ingenious! Propose him a game. Give him a stunning night by offering to wear him the condom with your mouth and to play with his genitals. Pretty sure the win is going to be on your side. Who will refuse a magnificent foreplay?

And if all these suggestions and counsels are not taken into account and analyzed by your partner it is the very time to think of your future relationship! His negligence should awake and prepare you for further steps to be taken. Do not give up if your partner rejects the condom's usage. Be ambitious and do not let partner's listlessness cover your healthy thoughts regarding protection and a sexual life without risks of infections.

Spray-on condom

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A group of German sex educators of the Institute for Condom Consultancy had promoted a new product on the world sex industry. It is the Hi-tech Spray-on condom! The hi-tech condom aims to assure a better and safer sex. According to developers the new condom functions more effectively. It fits better and does not slip.

The procedure of using this outstanding product is very simple. Initially the individual should insert his penis into a type of spray can. He must push on a button for coating his penis into a rubber condom ( ). Inside the can penis is sprayed on latex from nozzles from all sides.
Few seconds are sufficient for preparing you to enjoy passionate sexual intercourse.

If we've impressed your imagination and you are ready to purchase the condom right now, stop a while! This incredible item is not available yet in drugstores or sex shops. Why?
- The researches must be sure that the liquid latex is evenly spread when being sprayed on the penis. That is why the team needs condom testers- individuals whose penis is about 9-12 cm long and from 15 to 20 cm.
Dr Krause - the developing team leader hopes that spray-on condom will enter the market by 2008. The item will be available in various sizes and even colors and will cost almost 40$, whereas the latex cartridges will probably cost $20.

If you are interested whether the spray-on condom can be used with sex toys for better hygiene there is not given any answer on this matter yet.
We are eagerly waiting for researches' results and hope they will be the best!

Condom failure: what to do

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Although condom is one of the most reliable contraceptives, failures with their usage do occur. The most frequent problems that lead to condom ( ) failure were their breakage and slippage during the intercourse.

Possible reasons of condom failure

Tears in the condom

Opening the package incorrectly, such as with one's teeth, long fingernails or sharp tools is often the initial cause for condom failure. Minor tears left on a condom may result in condom breakage so it's necessary to check the condom to avoid this possibility later on.

Low-quality condom

Using a condom after expiration date means that you no longer can rely on a condom as an effective contraceptive. Look thoroughly at the condom to find if its' not damaged, adhesive or frail, has uneven structure or color. Also try to use condoms of well-known manufacturers.

Too early or too late application

Due to the correct use of a condom a man should put it on erect penis. So if you roll the condom while penis is still flaccid or prior to ejaculation the chances of condom slippage will be reduced. In general as condom protects the covered area a penis should not come in contact with the genitals or any other orifice until the condom is putt on.

Incompatible lubricant

Condoms made of latex are not compatible with oil-based lubricants as they can damage the material of a condom. Water-based lubricant is a good choice that fits all condom materials.

Repeated use of a condom

Condoms are meant to be used only once, that's why any reuse, i.e. using the same condom for subsequent intercourses or washing the condom and reusing is ineffective and unreasonable.

Wrong size of the condom

While this is not so obvious cause of condom breakage or slippage, cases when condom doesnt match to the size of the penis still occur. The material of a condom is supposed to stretch while you put it on, but with a rare exception, men who have considerably thick penis may experience condom failure.

Emergency tips for condom failure

Don't panic if condom failure did occur. You are not helpless and there are things you can do to protect yourself from getting pregnant or reduce the chance of getting STD's.
If the condom broke or slipped of during the intercourse prior to ejaculation , you should stop and pull out penis as fast as possible and put on another condom (always have several condoms handy in case something goes wrong).

If the ejaculation took place - withdraw penis carefully and put ascorbic acid deep inside the vagina (no more than two pills), to create acid medium which kills sperm or spermicide. Of course, this won't give you a 100% guarantee, but it will help you to reduce the chance of getting pregnant.

Don't douche! This will only result in pushing sperm further more.

Appeal to emergency contraception or to be more precise-morning-after pill. Emergency contraception is effective only in preventing pregnancy. You can get it in a local drug store or in a family planning center. The first tablet should be taken right after the intercourse and the second one after 8 hours. Keep in mind that that is not a regular method of contraception, so you should apply to it only on rare occasions and no more than once half a year.

Stay calm and talk to your partner on your sex history. Did you and your partner have unprotected intercourse before? Be honest to evaluate the risks of possible infection. In any way you should consult with your doctor to get tested on STD's.

Female condom use

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While some men use condom quite reluctantly and even refuse to do so, women choose the barrier method they will be able to take responsibility of.
Female condoms ( ) resembles much of a male one, being around 6,7 inches long contraceptive made of polyurethane. At the tip of the condom it has a pliable ring which is meant to closely fit the cervix of the uterus. The outer ring is to be hanging down the entrance of the vagina. The flexibility of inner ring is designed and helps to let the condom stay in place.
Advantages of female condom

As a male condom it gives protection against STD's and unwanted pregnancy due to its ability not to let the body liquids pass through the barrier.

Female condom is compatible with most lubricants (silicone and oil-based) due to polyurethane material it is made of.

Female condom can be a good choice for those who suffer from allergy to latex.

It doesnt interrupt the intercourse as you may insert it beforehand.

How to use female condom

Open the package of the condom and take it out.

Apply a lubricant on the inside of the sheath or on the penis so that to make penetration and thrusting more comfortable.

Make yourself comfortable to insert the sheath, lying down or hunkering down

Take the condom by the inner ring so that your thumb and your middle finger will squeeze it to ease the insertion. When the inner ring gets inside the vagina, you can push the sheath further by index finger placing it inside at the pouch of the inner ring.

Insert the inner ring quickly till it fits snugly at the other side of the vagina. The outer ring should be left hanging so that to remove it lately.

After the intercourse remove the condom holding and twisting it by the outer. Condom will slide out of vagina.

Warnings

Female condom is meant for one use only, which means you can apply it only during one intercourse.

Check your nails while inserting condom inside the vagina not to damage the material of the latter

Don't use male condom when protection with if you already use female condom.

Throw the condom in trash, not in the toilet.

Some women find it quite uncomfortable to insert female condom, but those difficulties can be overcome with constant and recurring use.