Condoms: myths and the truth | Jan 14, 2008 |
Condom is a unique contraceptive as it protects you from sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy, no other contraceptive can provide so great effect. Nevertheless, many people avoid using condoms due to some myths that describe condom as something awful that deprives you of pleasure. What are these myths?
Myth 1. Condoms are male contraceptives and they must be bought by men.
This is a very popular opinion, but it is groundless. About 35 % condom buyers are women.
Myth 2. Condom affects sensations and makes sex less enjoyable
Modern latex condoms are very durable, elastic and at the same time they are very thin. So thin that you won't feel you are wearing a condom. What is more, some condoms can even enhance your sensations as these have textured surface that provides additional stimulation. Some condoms come with a prolonging lubricant that contains benzocaine. These condoms are designed for those who have problems with ejaculation control. Choose the condom that suits you best and enjoy safer sex and great pleasure time!
Myth 3. Condoms cause friction, discomfort and pain
Almost all available condoms come with water-based or silicone-based lubricant that reduces pain and discomfort. Silicone-based lubricants have two main advantages: they provide long-lasting lubrication and do not cost much. However these are not water-soluble. Water-based lubricants are water-soluble and feel very naturally.
Also there are lubricants that contain spermicides (sperm-killers that increase condom's effectiveness) and anesthetics (agents that prolong sexual intercourse). Flavored lubricants make condoms perfect for oral sex. If still you feel discomfort and pain, than do go to doctor as painful intercourse might be a sign of some disorders.
Myth 4. Sex without condom influences health of female partner beneficially
The truth. Some people think that woman needs hormones that are contained in semen and that is why she should practice sex without condom. However, abortion and infections can hardly be called beneficial. 55 percent of infertile women lost ability to conceive as the result of an abortion. Is it worth mentioning that sexually transmitted diseases also lead to infertility and other troubles?
The only disadvantage of latex condoms is that these contain protein that might cause allergy in some people. Those who have latex allergy should use polyurethane condoms.
Myth 5. We are faithful spouses, we don't need a condom
The truth. Even if you are spouses and you do not plan pregnancy, you should use a condom. One can get infected through non-sexual way. This is especially important if the female partner is pregnant.
Myth 6. Suggestion to use a condom can insult the partner and shows my distrust
Nothing of the kind! Thus you will show your care of your partner's health and safety!
